Tuesday, October 14, 2008

And that's that.

I now KNOW that all my friends are aware i am gay.

And i KNOW that none of them are bothered by it.

I KNOW that from now on, i don't have to pretend around them.

I KNOW that we will all be even better friends than before.

I KNOW that things will be fine.

And i KNOW that i am HAPPY that this happened.

Isn't that great?

I was so nervous about all of this, but in the end it turned out for the better. I'm thinking that i took some of their previous comments too seriously. ;)

My friends accept me. A lot of them couldn't care less. Just like i did with Matthew, i underestimated all of them.

The one that i thought would go blank, and be freaked out, is still my best friend.

The one that i thought would never want to talk to me again is exactly the same friend as before.

The one that i thought was a complete homophobe is the most inquisitive and curious.

And around all of them, i can be myself. :)

I'm GLAD this happened. I'm so happy this happened. I can be myself. I am accepted.

The hugest days of my life turned out to be some of the best.

I cannot think of a better outcome than what happened.

I'll keep this post short, because there's not much else to say. :P

Life is good. I've broken down a huge wall that was holding me back. I can move on now - as myself, and nothing but myself.




steevo said...

wow wow wow wow wow wow

Hope Stan, who wonders if there is a god for gay boys, read this.

[ http://stanlovesboys.blogspot.com/2008/10/is-there-god-for-gay-boys-looong.html ]

This is so wonderful, m-boy. You have made my week.



Landyn said...


The end.

-Landyn <3

steevo said...


Lach said...

I told you so.. hahah! congrats man, really stoked for you :)


Anonymous said...

I am so pleased for you. That heavy weight has been lifted from you and you can be your normal lovable self.

Anonymous said...

Just hugs and and cybersnuggles and proud looks and kind words whispered in you ear. I'm soooo proud of you! You're my hero!


Anonymous said...

Hey by the way, has anyone heard from Stan? Its been 5 days with no post? I'm starting to wonder if hes ok. Tristan

Seth said...

I'm glad everything worked out for you. Its an important milestone in your life, and your development. Now don't go rushing off and getting married - at least until you're "legal" and come visit me here in America!! Just kidding.

I posted a picture for you on my blog:


Seth said...

By the way, long web URL's seem to get cut off in the comments section so I'm putting it on two lines.


Anonymous said...

very glad. maybe the one who is the most inquisitive is the one who is trying to come out to himself.... That's not for sure, it's just a possibility. Realize, now that you are out, that at least some, maybe only one, of your friends is probably gay and still in the closet. Just having that awareness can make your relationships deeper and more helpful.

Stephen Chapman... said...

Brilliant news. I wish I had done the deed YEARS earlier than I did. What a fool I was. Anyway - well done and keep on blogging mate.


naturgesetz said...

I'm glad they're all cool with it.

KS said...

Congratulations :)


Bitter And Sweet said...

Well, not much more to be said than grea job!

Anonymoose said...

Anonymoose is glad that things worked out well. :D

Jeremy said...