Ever wondered why i have this message above my comments box?
"Don't leave a comment telling me how i whinge, or i bore you, or how i'm annoying, or i'm lame, or you don't like me, or i depress you, or i upset you, or you want to punch me, or that you hate me and my blog, or that you want me to die etc.
See, that classifies you as a fuckwit. Are you a fuckwit?
All other comments are welcome. :)"
Good ol' anonymous commenters.
There's nothing wrong with not wanting to or being too shy make a profile for people to see who you are. In this gay world of ours, i guess people 'in the closet' are quite worried that someone will find out who they are and spill their secret.
But i'm talking the kind of anons who like to abuse people and (try to) say hurtful things, and yet are so gutless that they hide behind anonymity. The kind who leave a pathetic remark and then disappear. The sorts of people who are just plain losers.
Remember that post i made about suicide? When i was really down? You probably don't. lol. It was ages ago. Anyways...
"Anonymous said...
As nike says, just do IT."
Oh yeah. And when i got past that episode...
"Anonymous said...
GAY"
Weirdo.
Oh. Then came the abuse from a real life person in my circle of friends. Not only did this c*nt not have the guts to tell me to my face, he couldn't even put his name up.
"Anonymous said...
1.kidding yourself
2.wtf?
3.omg everyones gonna find out your gay how depressing go cry in a corner and im pretty sure like 50 kids per day get in situations like that so deal with fuck stick
4.know one cares about your little homo sittuations.
ps. go fuck yourself or your cat cos that seems to be your only pictures i mean cmon are you rooting your cats your like the crazy cat lady but even more gay
pss.go die kno onelikes yo."
And after my response.
"Anonymous said...
1.WOW I dont correct my words perfectly for your gay ass taste
2.I have better things than to type a fucking novel at probly dark ass room surrounded by the light coming out of a computer.
3.know cares go die ect ect
4.also know cares about your small ass townps go die
PSS if u have any problems im at ----whitepride@hotmail.com----"
Nice generic email address there.
And i mean wtf. I sit in a well-lit room... I have lights!
That's why i don't stay in contact with 'friends' from my old school.
Here's some more abuse from one of my readers. :)
"Anonymous said...
i used to love your site and you but you now are becomeing a winging bore..today i watched the news on the bushfires and the many sad stories comeing out of there...makes your trouble look small...i know u will delete this thats ok...wish u all the best 4 the future...am now going to delete this site from my list of favs."
I was having a hard time. I'd been OUTED at school. Just cos other people were having a hard time, that doesn't mean my struggle was any less hard.
Oh, here's a quickie.
"Anonymous said...
you're annoying"
Gee thanks fuck you.
When i took my break from blogging because i had a lot on my mind...
"Anonymous said...
Mirror
I think you and AJ are just quitters. That simple"
Ugh. So i defended myself, and so did my friends.
"Anonymous said...
So perfect. A group of upset teens who can only think of venting their anger. Look, all I said was that they were quitters. Period. Actually, when you look at it, they did just quit. I didn't say "Fuck you asshole, you shouldn't post anything ever again." Nope. Not anything close. I just said they were quitters. In fact, I stated it in such a way that it would prod them a bit--as it indeed seemed to do. Of course, the rest of the gang decided to pile on. I didn't say anything to the rest of you, and I didn't say anything particularly offensive to the blogkeeper. But that sure hasn't stopped y'all from bash, bash, bash. The expletives, etc. And does it really matter if I have a blog or not? Maybe I've got more experience with such matters than you could hope to. Perhaps I understand how to get someone to consider a different view of reality. Just maybe I do such things for a living? Hmmmm, isn't that possible? Or is the Net now becoming a place for adolescents, mature and otherwise, to simply vent anger at anyone. If you want to be respected, be respectful of others. Again, I didn't attack anyone in an offensive way. But that the same could be said for you..."
Bla bla bla.
And then when someone joked about pushing this anon off the proverbial cliff...
"Interesting display of violence simply because of something I said. Wow. Did you ever hear of a guy named Matthew Shepard? He was killed in Wyoming several years back--actually tied to a fence and then killed--simply because he was gay and unwilling to be quiet about it. Someone voices a thought and you not only contemplate pushing me off a cliff but do a jig about it and a high five celebration. Sad. Really sad. I don't know where the violent urge is coming from, but I don't think I've said anything to merit that kind of violent response. I didn't manifest a voice of hatred, and I sure didn't suggest pusshing anyone off a cliff, never mind celebrating it. You want to defend someone, great, defend with thoughts and ideas. Don't use violence to triumph, because in the end, it never does. Just ask Matthew Shepard's killers or his parents."
That's just... lol.
And here's the latest prick who's just plain rude.
"Anonymous said...
post pics of yourself.
we all know you're not doing it so people will give you attention.
-.-"
"Anonymous said...
hey mirrorboy
you're an over dramatic attention whore.
:)"
"Anonymous said...
at least i'm not pathetic like you.
:)"
So my point is. I've been blogging for a long time. I've heard it all. Even from people i know.
So i really just don't care. Anonymous commenters who leave abuse are incredibly pathetic. The above examples are evidence of their consistent stupidity. That fact that i'm a blogger with my heart out there for everyone to see, while you're too gutless to even show your name, gives your words... very little impact.
I'd like to keep this untitled.
14 years ago
45 comments:
I fail to understand how not posting pics makes people pay attention to anyone.
Also, I lol at the fact that one of them said 'at least I'm not pathetic'. Yeah, posting negative anonymous comments is really not pathetic.
We love you, MB!! Never let'em bring ur spirit down!! :D
Sadly, if you choose to go public and blog, you do leave yourself open to anonymous snide / hurtful comments.
There's no real answer. You can block anon commenting, but that also blocks constructive comments from those who may genuinely wish to remain totally anonymous for good reasons.
Enabling moderation prevents those comments from becoming public, but you have to read them first, and the "hurt" is already done at that point.
There's no real answer, other than to be strong enough not to allow them to affect you. You seem to have that strength.
Keep blogging as you see fit to.
As Louie says, don't let them break your spirit.
I'd also say, since you are a blogger celebrity, one of the lynch pins of this community, you are likely to become a prime target for that type of destructive / negative comment.
Sorry I can't offer anything more positive other than to rely on your inner strength
Lotsa luv.
ps Yeah, I don't comment often, but this is something that does wind me up.
yeah, kinda makes you wonder why they're coming to your blog at all if they dislike it that much, do they just get off on being rude to strangers online?
idk.... you could always do what i do... be really really really unpopular so they don't read ur blog... wait not that, the other thing: don't give a damn :)
Laterz Mboy
I guess one of those fools is at it again, or else someone asked why you say that in the "Leave your comment" area.
So delete the nasty anonymous comments.
Erm, um, WOW! OK, do you feel better now?
I bet that when they attack you like this, it just means they see themselves in you and are worried that they may be gay too.
Anyway, like Louie said, we love you and to HELL with them!!
You seem really sweet and I'd give you a hug if I could.
There, now you have a nice (and sincere) Anonymous comment!
:)
@ng - It was just the comments here that brought it to my mind.
Often I think they actually believe their negative comments are constructive criticism. It's like the "tough love" model of caring for people, that the only way to survive in this world is to become hard and insensitive like them.
Well I don't want to live in a world full of hard and insensitive people. I love the way you are prepared to admit your vulnerabilities, to give support and get support in return. People like you, Mboy, who do that make this world a better place to be.
hey mb - focus on the love, there's a lot more of it, and a lot more where it came from - I think I'm gonna post pics of my cats on my blog tonight - just for you
Hey, I'm an overdramatic attention whore, so I think if anyone has anything to say in that regard they can say it to me first. -.-
:P
I hope that one Anon comment about the pics did come after I made a comment on the other post...
:S
If it did, sorry.
-_-
You have real life homo friends now.
<3 mcake!
I guess I had missed those when they still existed. Anyway, I've seen enough of their nonsense to have a general idea.
Keep that delete button handy. And if I were you, I would delete them without comment in future. They don't even deserve the keystrokes for a comeback at them.
*sigh*
kill em all ^_^
you with me MBoy????
im only joking (i think the white pride one may end up on someones list however)
but ive been infected with the offensive spirit
fuck them
and other things as well
^_^
Can't you just block anonymous comments? I thought AJ did that.
cheers
!
I was in a similar situation to you when I was blogging from Prague. It seems that for every nice, genuine person out there, 20 more snidey jealous queens exist. They complain about your blog, play the critic, call you names for being so 'sad' as to spend all of your time in front of a computer... But who is the sadder? They seem to devour every word you write and never miss a posting! :-)
Blog for yourself, don't let others tell you what to do.. It's YOUR blog remember. If they don't like it, let them read something else.
Don't get all down about stupid fools who have nothing better to do than be abusive to someone who is actually CREATING something, documenting their life, and putting it out there on the web.
Keep strong kid!
Far more people love you than those who don't!
Steve,
BrazilGayScene.Net
I love that you are able to handle all that abuse so well, and brush it off (as it deserves).
I very much remember the lovely 'push off a cliff guy' and I remember literally screaming at my computer screen and laughing because I was so confused how someone could be so ridiculous to think I was talking about actual violence and not just hyperbole.
You are awesome, 'nuff said.
Much Love,
Steve
lol those people are so hypocritical especially that guy ranting about the internet now a dumping ground for anonymous haters...
Anyways I can always hook you up w/ some programs to track them down lol..
Yeah just ignore them... If you let them get to you then you're letting them win! Don't let them win! People hate it when they're ignored :)
that is why I simply have turned off anonymous comments...
dont wanna deal with those dickheads :-P
Peace,
AJ
Oh yeah and anyone who eggs on someone to die or commit suicide is just scum...
Unfortunately you're not alone in receiving nasty comments. But it's right to sound off about it.
Trolls don't just live under bridges anymore and thanks to the freedom of the internet, they have an instantaneous way of getting a reaction when they start poking and that's exactly what they want.
Don't be surprised if the same anonymous commenters here do the rounds each night and leave bitchy and hateful anonymous comments on other blogs where the writer may be feeling out of sorts or lonely for their own reasons.
I'm all for freedom of speech, but there is no reason to poke at someone who doesn't need the added hassles in their life.
Unfortunately, if you disable anonymous posting, you may miss out on meeting nice people at times.
mboy
I cant tell you why people like anon exist and maybe AJ s right just turn them off and stop dealing with them
But the fact that they are anonymous speaks volumes about who is hiding in reality and having nothing better to do in this life other then asking you for a picture or being simply an annoying asshole is sad
to be honest i would rather not ever see any of you because i'de rather focus on what you are all saying rather then how cute you all are :D
hope your enjoying the time off and relaxing, take care and be safe
bob
@ anonymous — Okay, it's not Melbourne, but from what I see on the internet, there's a fair amount of stuff going on. "Boring" is in the eye of the beholder.
Mboy — the question is, do you want some support when hate-filled people like this try to bring you down. 'Cause if so, we're happy to provide it. But if you don't need us, you can enable comment moderation. The thing is, anonymous gets a feeling of importance by having his bile appear on the web, so if you never let it appear, it's no fun for him anymore. So it's just a question of whether you'd like us to see the nonsense you have to deal with.
I like that anon is criticizing you for 'wanting attention', while simultaneously doing something only for the sake of getting attention.
Anon, it is pathetic to treat any other human in the way that you are treating mirrorboy. You are pathetic. My only comfort is knowing that you will die alone and hated by your peers. See people, such as yourself, who have no empathy for their neighbors--who take pleasure in watching others get upset and sad over insults-- you are broken as a human. You have a broken brain. It is perverted to act in the manner that you act. You will not be able to have real relationships with others, because your are barely human. So you will die alone, hopefully poor and destroyed by your own narcissistic actions-- that is the only comfort that I have. I don't know you-- but I know enough from the little I've seen so far.
And, yes, I am aware that I am giving you the attention that you crave.
Go away.
Steve
You wanna know what my response would be to the "You're annoying" comments?
"Thanks! I take pride in my ability to annoy the masses."
:)
*hugs*
@Anon
"Oh and if you do want to get to know me, just ask ^_^"
Ok
Who are you?
Where are you from?
What makes you so special?
Why do you read mirrorboi's blog?
I do LOVE you moe than you ever will think, so fuck those comments that says shit ^^
@ Anon
After this im going to ignore you because you are not worth it. As I will advise everyone to do.
From your last commetns it is clear that you have a great amount of emotional porblems yourself.
If you don't enjoy his blog anymore don't read it. Infact come look at mine and slag it off instead. Although you are probably too much of a pussy to pick on someone who really doesn't care about what you say.
The fact is Mirrorboy has his blog for a reason and he wants to use it as an outlet. If you have a problem with that write your own and we will happily stay away from it.
Wishing you all the best for the future on another blog.
Tom
@Mirrorboy
Sorry but I just wanted to stick up for you, there is no need for his disgusting behaviour, I recommend that from now on any post by him you delete. Or can you put moderation on where u get to check the ones before they are posted.
Looking forward to another post from your end of the world.
Tom
@ anonymous — "But why would I go to your blog where you'll ignore me, when i can get posted about on this one?" So you confirm that you comment here as an attention-getting device.
"And to be honest, i only post anonymously because i'm too lazy to make a blog myself." But you don't have to blog in order to stop being anonymous. All you have to do is create an identity. Then we could see your profile, and if you were honest, we'd have the answers to Tom's questions about who and where you are, as well as anything else you cared to disclose so we could know you a bit better.
But when you answered Tom's question "Who are you?" with the obvious falsehood, "I am a robot," you showed yourself dishonest both in the answer itself and in your earlier assertion, "Oh and if you do want to get to know me, just ask."
In short, you are an attention-craving liar.
@naturgesetz
Perfect
I'm relatively new to blogland. But i'll say this your blog is one of my favorites. Don't listen to your critics sounds like just a couple anyway. You got alot of supporters including me. Glad to be along for the ride and be one of your followers.
You know usually I don’t comment here, but in this case, please don’t let these ugly and evil minds near to you, the world is made of this too, but you should don’t focus on it, they are unworthy your attention.
Mboy - you need to know how deep the darkness is in which you shine, that is why you encounter the other side. And look at Deadwing, considering himself "boring" ??? He too needs perspective on the world. Not to get a big ego, but to do whatever possible to help. I am profoundly impressed with you, and with some others here.
Do what you must to sanitise trolls away. Maybe post instructions (or links) of how best to register a name, and link that post in the side bar? Then I'd say stop anon posting. Also if visitors could stop responding to trolls it would be easier to delete them.
Anon left 5 comments on my blog over 8 hours. If anyone needs to get a life, it ain't me.
Comment moderation is now on. Thanks to everyone who supported me, even though it wasn't necessary. :)
It's my blog. It's under my control. I'll always have the last word. I'm always gonna win bitches.
STOP
responding
to
the
anonymous
haters
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*hugs* :)
Hi MB,
The anon posters can really make you doubt you goodness of people. Your blog is for you and your benefit. You give a lot to others because that is the kind of person you are and it shows. Don't give those bad posts a second though; delete them too.
Hugs, R
Haha I love the way ya posted it to tell the anonamous user that are bein dicks to gway n shite an there's a few of em that have been deleted by blod admins (^^,)
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